I have an interesting story for you Shubhdeep. Today afternoon i asked my son to cut the grass of the front yard. After he did, while i am at substack, he came asking me to check his work becuase he is a cancer sign man who needs a validation. My son and i are both canser. I checked his work, was fine, i paused abd asked him...tell me about this cancer validation stuff. Why you need a validation...!
Of course, you always need a validation...he said.
I told him listen, at substack, a few days ago, an young Indian writer wrote an article, she says the man's problem, generally speaking, that he shouldn't behave with women based on validating himself.
He said she said that!, i confirmed. He proceeded, she is wrong. We men we do everything just for women. We just live for women. I smiled then we entered.
I wonder if you have anything to what my son said... Shubhdeep.!😀
I am not a man. But I know some who have evolved. And some who are tired of the old game. If you do not mind answering this, do you think that if you meet the kind of man I describe here, you would consider being in a relationship again?
I decided 11years ago to go without a man. I was 35. I'm now 46 and I haven't regretted it. I admire the evolution of your soul. Truth is if men don't evolve, they will go without.
I have an interesting story for you Shubhdeep. Today afternoon i asked my son to cut the grass of the front yard. After he did, while i am at substack, he came asking me to check his work becuase he is a cancer sign man who needs a validation. My son and i are both canser. I checked his work, was fine, i paused abd asked him...tell me about this cancer validation stuff. Why you need a validation...!
Of course, you always need a validation...he said.
I told him listen, at substack, a few days ago, an young Indian writer wrote an article, she says the man's problem, generally speaking, that he shouldn't behave with women based on validating himself.
He said she said that!, i confirmed. He proceeded, she is wrong. We men we do everything just for women. We just live for women. I smiled then we entered.
I wonder if you have anything to what my son said... Shubhdeep.!😀
That’s such a meaningful conversation to have with your son. Thank you for sharing.
Here are my thoughts:
Your son has a father who reads — I don’t expect him to represent most men.
But if he truly believes his words speak for all men, I’d love to hear three examples that make him feel that way.
I am not a man. But I know some who have evolved. And some who are tired of the old game. If you do not mind answering this, do you think that if you meet the kind of man I describe here, you would consider being in a relationship again?
I decided 11years ago to go without a man. I was 35. I'm now 46 and I haven't regretted it. I admire the evolution of your soul. Truth is if men don't evolve, they will go without.
I enjoyed your perspective, refreshing 🙂the conversation should continue. It's good to see men evolving.🫶
This is one of the reasons I chose to write this piece. Women are tired. Men are angry. And femicide is rising globally.
It’s not just a gender issue — it’s a human one.
Is there anything you’d like to add that I might have missed?
Thank you for reading.
I must be a good writer. Thank you for your feedback 🙏🏼